There are two fundamental parts to expanding your sexual play:
- it’s got to be REAL, that is, it has to be what you truly want, and
- it’s got to be CONSENSUAL, you both have to want it.
I say, as long as it’s between adult, living humans who both (or all) agree to it, then it’s fine.
There is a separate issue of when sex or particular aspects of sex become compulsive and interfere with life, that’s not good. If you’re confused, the baromoter is: is this life-enhancing, does this make me feel good and empowered and add to the quality of my life (and the same for your partner). If the answer is yes, then go for it. read more...